Positivity – it’s a mindset many aspire to. While maintaining a positive outlook in life has many advantages, it’s crucial to understand the thin line between supportive positivity and its detrimental counterpart – toxic positivity.
Toxic positivity refers to the overgeneralization of a happy, optimistic state, often dismissing or invalidating genuine human emotional experiences. It communicates the message that negative emotions should be suppressed or avoided, which can have a significant impact on one’s mental health. Here’s how.
Toxic positivity can promote a cycle of hiding or dismissing negative feelings, denying one’s emotional reality. This suppression can result in higher levels of stress, anxiety, and depression.
Being pressured into displaying a constant positive outlook can lead to you feeling inauthentic and disconnected from your true feelings. This disconnect can potentially lead to lower self-esteem and negative self-perception.
Negative emotions, including sadness, fear, or anger, are natural and are an important part of human life. Experiencing and navigating through these emotions helps you gain emotional intelligence, and resilience and leads to personal growth. Toxic positivity impedes this essential process.
By dismissing genuine feelings and emotions, toxic positivity can create strain and misunderstanding in relationships, causing emotional distance.
By continuously masking their true feelings, individuals might overlook critical symptoms of mental health disorders, leading to untreated and worsening conditions over time.
It’s crucial to understand that it’s okay not to be okay all the time. Acknowledging a full range of emotions – both positive and negative – is the key to genuine psychological well-being. Seeking help, practicing self-care, and cultivating a balanced, realistic positivity can foster mental health. So next time you’re urged to “just stay positive,” remember it’s equally important to stay real.